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Topic: Chronic Pain & Symptoms

Letting Go of Perfectionism

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In this episode, Grace explores the impact of perfectionism—how it subtly takes hold, shapes our self-worth, and fuels stress, self-doubt, and even chronic symptoms. She unpacks the hidden ways perfectionism manifests, from overthinking and procrastination to the relentless pressure of hustle culture. Through personal insights and reflections, Grace breaks down why society rewards busyness, how perfectionism affects the healing process, and the importance of shifting toward self-compassion. She also leads a powerful guided reflection to help listeners identify and release perfectionistic tendencies, fostering a mindset of ease, trust, and outcome independence.

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Q & A – your questions answered!

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, host Grace answers listener questions about healing and navigating the complexities of mind-body health. Topics include managing perfectionism tendencies, handling the disappearance of chronic symptoms, maintaining a mindset when struggling to feel understood, and dealing with IBS and complex PTSD. Grace also announces new individual coaching spots with her and therapist Liana, emphasising the importance of personalised support in nervous system regulation. Tune in for practical advice and compassionate guidance for your healing journey.

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Best of 2024: Ep. 24 How to create your own authentic messages of safety

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, Grace interviews Vanessa Blackstone, the executive director of the Pain Psychology Center. Vanessa, who has a background in social work and is a citizen of the Eastern Band of Cherokee Indians, shares her journey from dealing with her own chronic pain to becoming a therapist in pain reprocessing therapy (PRT). They delve into the concept of PRT, explaining how it aims to address the neural pathways in the brain that perpetuate chronic pain by creating messages of safety and soothing the nervous system. Vanessa discusses the challenges of establishing a sense of safety, particularly for those who didn't grow up in secure environments. Through her personal stories and therapeutic experiences, she emphasises the importance of slowing down, understanding one's emotions, and using authentic messages of safety to foster healing. The episode also touches on the broader aspects of creating safety in one's current life and explores how our past and present environments influence our sense of security

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Finding Your Inner Anchor: How to Feel Safe in Your Own Body

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, hosted by Grace Secker, listeners explore the essential practice of establishing an inner resource to find safety within their nervous systems. Grace discusses the importance of this practice in managing stress, chronic pain, and difficult emotions by creating a space of inner calm and grounding. The episode features a guided meditation designed to help listeners connect with their own inner resource, offering practical steps to build resilience and ease in the face of life's challenges. Grace also introduces a Q&A segment for future episodes and invites listeners to submit their questions.

Episode 24: How to create your own Authentic message of safety with Vanessa Blackstone

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How to stop catastrophizing

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This episode of the Heal with Grace podcast delves into the concept of catastrophising and its impact on anxiety and chronic pain. I explain how negative thought patterns can exacerbate pain and offer strategies to break this cycle, such as checking the facts of negative thoughts, naming underlying emotions, and retraining the brain to view pain as safe. Through personal anecdotes and practical tools, listeners are encouraged to practice self-compassion and mindfulness to facilitate healing. The episode concludes with an invitation for listeners to seek support and guidance on their healing journey.

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Nervous System Regulation Tools for daily routine

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In this episode of the 'Heal With Grace' podcast, host Grace dives into the importance of nervous system regulation and shares practical tools and techniques to help listeners manage chronic anxiety, fatigue, pain, and more. Grace emphasises the need for a balanced routine and discusses the benefits of grounding, morning movement, sensory breaks, and setting boundaries. She also introduces her self-paced course, the Mind Body Healing Method, designed to make these principles more accessible. The episode is packed with actionable advice, encouraging listeners to create small, intentional habits to promote healing and well-being.

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The Art of Saying No: Boundaries as a Tool for Healing

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In this episode of the Heal With Grace podcast, host Grace Secker discusses the importance of setting boundaries and the power of saying no, especially for those dealing with chronic conditions like fatigue, pain, and depression. Grace explains how constantly saying yes and people-pleasing can negatively impact mental and physical health, and offers practical tips for learning to say no compassionately. This episode is a deep dive into understanding and protecting your energy to improve your well-being.

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Top 3 personality characteristics keeping you sick

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, host Grace Secker delves into the top three personality traits that hinder individuals on their healing journeys: perfectionism, people-pleasing, and self-criticism. Grace explains how these traits can perpetuate chronic mind and body symptoms like anxiety, chronic pain, and illness. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, she encourages listeners to recognise these traits, embrace imperfection, set boundaries, and practice self-compassion to foster a more supportive environment for healing. Join Grace as she offers insights and actionable steps to guide you towards a more balanced and fulfilling life.

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How to know if your pain is physical or psychologically based

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In this episode, we delve into the concept of neuroplastic pain, a phenomenon where psychological rather than structural causes drive chronic pain. I share my personal experiences and insights into pain reprocessing therapy (PRT), the importance of regulating the nervous system, and the role of mental and emotional health in healing. Learn how symptoms like migraines, fibromyalgia, and IBS can be addressed by retraining the brain and creating neural networks of safety. Discover the pathways to reduce and even eliminate chronic symptoms and understand that healing is not only possible but attainable.

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