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Shame Resiliency: How it Manifests Physically and Emotionally

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In this episode, Grace dives deep into the powerful and often hidden force of shame—how it shapes our thoughts, bodies, and lives. She explores the difference between shame and guilt, how shame manifests physically and emotionally, and why so many of us carry it unknowingly.

Shame thrives in secrecy, but the good news is that we can build resilience, release its hold, and move toward healing. Grace shares practical tools for recognizing and processing shame, from nervous system regulation to self-compassion and the power of community.

If you've ever struggled with self-worth, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or feeling like you're "not enough," this episode will help you uncover the deeper layers of shame and learn how to rewrite the narrative.

What We Cover:

  • The difference between shame and guilt
  • How shame manifests in the body and nervous system
  • The connection between shame and chronic pain
  • Why perfectionism and people-pleasing are shame-based responses
  • How to build shame resilience through self-compassion and nervous system work
  • The healing power of speaking your shame out loud
  • Practical tools to release shame and step into self-acceptance

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Your Inner Critic Is Keeping You Sick: How to Silence Self-Doubt

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In this episode, Grace explores the voice that holds so many people back—the inner critic. That relentless self-doubt, the voice that whispers “you’re not enough,” can keep the mind and body stuck in cycles of stress, making true healing feel out of reach.

Grace unpacks:

  • How negative self-talk impacts the body and mind
  • The connection between self-judgment and chronic stress
  • Where the inner critic comes from and why it develops
  • How to rewrite inner dialogue with self-compassion
  • Practical steps to shift from self-criticism to self-kindness

Healing begins with creating a safe, supportive space within. Through this conversation, Grace guides listeners on how to release self-doubt, embrace self-worth, and build a foundation for lasting inner healing.

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Best of 2024 – Ep. 31: How to know which nervous system state you’re in

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, Grace explores how to identify the state of your nervous system using the polyvagal theory. Introduced by Dr. Stephen Porges in 1994, the polyvagal theory categorises the nervous system into three states: ventral vagal (green zone), sympathetic (yellow zone), and dorsal vagal (red zone). Grace explains how each state impacts mental, physical, and emotional health and provides practical tips on how to move between these states effectively. Emphasising self-care and understanding individual responses, the episode offers insights into maintaining a balanced and regulated nervous system for overall well-being.

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When Awareness Isn’t Enough: The Next Steps to Heal Your Nervous System

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, Grace addresses a common question about overcoming the feeling of being stuck in one's healing journey. She discusses the importance of moving from awareness to action, exploring deeper emotional work, and reconnecting with authenticity. Grace emphasises the value of personal support, self-compassion, and specific practices like journal speak to facilitate true healing. The episode also covers practical examples and steps to help listeners navigate their emotional patterns and live more authentically. Grace invites listeners to submit their questions for future Q&A episodes.

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Why Journaling is Important and How to Use it

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Breaking Free from Toxic Wellness Culture

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In this episode, Grace explores the delicate balance between wellness culture and the principles of Health At Every Size (HAES) and eating disorder recovery. She shares personal experiences and challenges, highlighting the potential toxicities within wellness culture such as the pursuit of perfection. Emphasizing self-compassion, intuitive eating, and the importance of rest and joy, Grace offers actionable tips for finding a real balance in self-care practices. The episode advocates for a personalized, stress-free approach to health, focusing on nourishment of mind, body, and soul.

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Healing Body Visualization + Meditation

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In this special episode of the 'Heal with Grace' podcast, Grace guides listeners through a healing body visualisation practice designed to help them reconnect with their bodies and activate their innate healing potential. The episode emphasises the powerful connection between mind and body, and how visualisation can shift mindsets, calm the nervous system, and promote overall health. Listeners are encouraged to find a quiet, comfortable space and engage in a guided meditation that illuminates the body's systems with vibrant light, fostering a state of rest, repair, and healing. In addition, Grace discusses the benefits of the Mind-Body Healing Method program, available at a discounted rate, which offers further support for managing symptoms and overcoming anxiety, chronic pain, and fatigue.

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The Power of Belief: Can Your Mind Really Heal Your Body?

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, host Grace, a psychotherapist and nervous system coach, explores the profound impact of the mind-body connection and the power of beliefs on physical health. Through compelling stories, research, and practical tips, Grace highlights how positive thoughts and visualization can lead to real, measurable improvements in health. The episode provides insights into the placebo effect, the role of psychoneuroimmunology, and the importance of positive affirmations, visualization, and gratitude in the healing process.

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The Power of Self-Compassion

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In this episode of the Heal with Grace podcast, hosted by holistic psychotherapist Grace Secker, the focus is on the transformative practice of self-compassion. Grace explains the importance of treating oneself with kindness, akin to caring for a close friend, and shares insights on how self-compassion aids in resilience, emotional well-being, and personal growth. The episode features real-life examples, including a client’s journey with self-compassion, and concludes with a guided meditation to help listeners cultivate this essential practice in their lives.

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3 tips to get you through a flare or hard time in your healing

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In this episode, Grace provides valuable insights and practical advice on how to navigate and cope with flares in health or challenging periods in life. They discuss the concept of catastrophising, a cognitive distortion that can increase stress and anxiety, and offer strategies to become aware of and manage it. The importance of slowing down, finding safety within the body and mind, and allowing oneself to surrender and accept difficult emotions is emphasised. Additionally, Grace highlights the necessity of consuming uplifting and positive content to maintain hope and resilience. Personal experiences and examples are shared to illustrate these points, making the advice relatable and actionable.

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